About

Tammy was born in Holland, Michigan, the same year the first man-made object entered lunar orbit and It’s a Small World opened at Disneyland; she’s been fascinated by contradictions and ironies ever since. She traces her love of words and storytelling to the fourth grade, when she wrote her first book—a tale of suspense and intrigue called The Schoolhouse Mystery.

Tammy went on to earn a degree in journalism from Indiana University and has enjoyed a long and varied professional writing career. While a stay-at-home mom of three kids, Tammy wrote her first novel, Hello Loved Ones, and the children’s book, My Health is in My Hands. Her memoir, The Buddha at My Table: How I Found Peace in Betrayal and Divorce, has won several awards, including the 2020 NYC Big Book Award and the 2019 Chicago Writers Association Book of the Year Award. 

These days, Tammy is a developmental editor for Atmosphere Press and for individual clients. She enjoys spending one-on-one time with writers who attend her Beach Glass Writers Residency in Chicago. 

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Reviews for THE BUDDHA AT MY TABLE

Remarkable blend of memoir, journalism, literature
5/5
When an author with background as journalist and novelist pens a memoir, the result is a remarkable blending of the three forms. There is objective reportage, and there is the elegance of a literary novel. There is the beautifully drawn emotional journey of a soul in transition that is honest and piercing in its vulnerability without being self-pitying, without sugar-coating or overplaying her own shortcoming and missteps in the face of her husband’s breathtaking unkindness. There is also a masterfully managed element of suspense; although the subtitle of the book “How I Found Peace in Betrayal and Divorce” lets us know right away that author Letherer won’t remain broken, the crescendo of setbacks and curve balls builds an uneasy sense of what-next? More than once I felt a small tingling sense of not quite knowing if I was reading a novel or a memoir, the events sometimes so seemingly inventive in that truth-is-stranger-than-fiction way. A central thread throughout the book is Letherer’s desire to become the writer she feels she is meant to be, navigating the deep doubts many emerging writers experience and the nay-saying and often-despicable smack-downs from those who supposedly know more (a college instructor tells her that her writing “makes me sick”). This only stoked the joy I felt when I closed the book, yes!, she made it as a writer, and yes, we can look forward to reading more.
- Ellen N
A fearless journey from betrayal to resilience and strength
5/5
Tammy Letherer’s rich memoir takes the reader on a journey from the pain and shock of her husband’s bombshell that he’s had numerous affairs and wants a divorce through her struggles with self-examination, her fight for her children, and her final realization that she is strong, fearless, and resilient. Letherer ’s luminous and lucid prose calls on literature, poetry, and beautiful metaphors to reflect on the pain of loss and the shining hope that she can recover. This is a book for anyone who has ever been betrayed or loves books about the evolving human spirit. Unflinching in her honest self-examination, Ms. Letherer draws us into her heart, and we can’t help but follow her to find out how she emerges from despair to joy and self-acceptance. Not to be missed.
- Linda Gartz
An Engaging Page Turner
5/5
I could not put this book down. The author's unique spin on a common human condition (divorce) is fresh and highly engaging. She freely exposes her raw human emotions and insecurities, yet has deep spiritual insights and realizations that reveal she is a wise soul. And she expresses her experiences beautifully. For example, sitting on the couch with her three kids after her father dies of coronary disease, she describes as “four ventricles of a beating heart.” I love that! There are so many more, with every chapter ending with a gem. I also love the many synchronicities that pop up sprinkled throughout the chapters. Finally, how the author sees Dave (her ex) mirrored in her relationship with Paul (her new love interest), and realizes we are all one. How beautiful that is! So many times this book touched my heart!
- Joseph J. Gabriel

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